Dear Officer,
Do you remember me? I’m the woman who frantically called you three times this year because my husband came home drunk and was violent. You were annoyed because I called for help so often; yet after each incident, and in spite of your warnings, I’d go back into the same situation without taking legal action.
A few months ago, I began attending Al-Anon meetings regularly. I now understand that alcoholism is a disease and my husband is out of control when he is drunk. Because of the support I receive from others who have had similar experiences, it’s clear to me I do not have to accept violence as a part of my life. Today, Al-Anon is giving me the courage to take the steps I need to protect myself and my children. I’m learning to make healthy choices for myself. I feel that if you refer others with this problem to Al-Anon, they would be forever grateful. Perhaps my story and the enclosed literature will help you when you encounter a similar situation. If you wish more information please contact 713-683-7227 or 888-4AL-ANON (888-425-2666), Monday through Friday, 8 AM to 6 PM, ET.
Sincerely yours,
P.S. My children now attend Alateen, a mutual support program for teenaged family members. It is part of the Al-Anon Family Groups.
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Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.
1600 Corporate Landing Parkway, Virginia Beach, VA 23454-5617
Phone: (757) 563-1600 Fax: (757) 563-1655
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org (external Al-Anon link)
E-mail: wso@al-anon.org (external Al-Anon link)
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